We’re just about to wrap up a 1.5 week family vacation in Fiji and I think I’ve found the answer. 

I’ve found what truly works for me. 

To be happy, to stay happy. 

Amongst family. 
1. One on one time with everyone. 

2. One on one time with V, which I try and fit in everyday. And pushing my agenda for even 10 minutes if he’s a bit resistant.

3. One on one time with me. Be it work, a consult or writing. I need time to pause and reflect. Just about every day if not, every other day. 

And Aru? Of course, he’s in moments, I make sure we connect solo every day, but then I let his Masi’s take over.
It’s really helped and I think I’ll try it for every vacation here on in 🙂