I was listening to a GirlBoss podcast today and I heard Bonnie from Design Sponge say, “I think all good things happen in your self care moments”. 

It has been taking me so many lessons to learn. Over and over. Again and again. 

To give myself self care time. 

Aru. Vivek. Vivek and I. Family. Friends. Often in that order. 

There is never time for me. 

Because I CHOOSE.

I PRIORITISE everything else. 

And because going to a gallery alone feels so unnecessary. 

Having a coffee alone feels like I’ll be stared at. 

Taking that long bath, so decadent. 

But I feel like I really need to get past that hang up. 

And take the courage. 

To be alone. 

And self care.