A few people have asked me if it’s better to go for counselling as a single person from a marriage / partnership or as a couple.
I think this.
With counselling, you’re growing.
It’s like a constant workshop on you.
Like a little class on your personal development every time you go.
And I feel that if you go alone, it’s great.
But it’s also likely, that you’ll be developing hugely.
And in a direction that isn’t parallel to your partner.
Even if you both are working on your careers, not your marriage / partnership, there is still huge development happening there.
So in short.
I’d recommend going together,
It’s a journey that will certainly make you a significantly different person over time and you’d rather that evolution be with your partner than without.