When you want to give it back.
When you want to cuss and slur.
When you want to have a massive bitch fest.
When you want to write that narky email.
When you want revenge.
When it hurts so much.
Know that it is not you.
What would be hurting her so much?
What fears would he have?
What insecurities are these issues stemming from?
And know that it is not you.
And in that moment, choose what is best for you.
Let it go.