This is what I’ve learnt.
(So that hopefully you don’t have to).
1. It is wrong to assume people are as ethical as you are.

  1. Asking questions doesn’t make you a mean boss, it makes you an efficient one.

  2. I don’t know about you, but I kept judging myself. I kept telling myself to be more patient, calmer, more understanding, more accepting, more forgiving. Oh my golly gosh. I feared her going, what would I do without her? How would I survive? Perhaps this is why I never confronted her, even when this wasn’t the first time it had occurred. Once I let go of this fear, and I told myself, the universe will always be watching out for me, was I in a position to say, “Uh, uh. I ain’t no fool honey.”

But I think. If I had put up with it for so long, it was my fault from the day it started.
You live and you learn right.

Hopefully for you, you won’t have to live it, just learn it šŸ˜‰