We have issues with what other people do.
Because that makes us uncomfortable in our own skin.
We wonder, “why am I not like that?”.
She buys designer clothes. OMG it costs like $1000 bucks a pop. Why would she spend her money on that?
She’s such a workaholic, I would never want to be home after 8pm.
She wears such full on colour. I find it a bit brash. Like why?
She is so skinny. She probably eats nothing.
And it goes on.
If we felt secure in ourselves, we wouldn’t give a shit about being different to others. The conversation would be non-existent. Because who cares?!
And that. Is why we seek to convert people. To become more like ourselves. Basically because it makes us feel more secure about ourselves.
Because we’re insecure in the first place…