Kaylene is teaching me to observe. To avoid diving into a discussion and getting swayed by words. 

But instead. 

To observe behaviour. 

Ask yourself, “but why is she / he saying what she / he is saying”. 

And what actions are they taking. 
I’m finding, that it is challenging to exit the discussion and get a birds eye view. 

But when I do, 

It’s pretty incredible. 
Xx

K